You are looking at posts that were written in the month of December in the year 2009.
Posted on December 8th, 2009 by Dax.
Categories: blog post.
Have you ever had a vision for a project, work or home, and you put every ounce of energy you could into completing this project to make it the best result you could imagine, and once one other resource becomes involved you slowly watch your “masterpiece” turn into a cluster?
And after the initial cluster you accept that there is a different resource invloved, and you try to remember to compromise. Then something else happens to deminish the “greatness” of your project. And then again…and again…and again.
You start going through cycles: first of disbeleif, then of confusion due to the lack of workmanship by others, then to a minor blowup, then to utter disbeleif, then to an almost major blowup, then a small period of acceptence, then a huge blowup, follwed be a period of reflection as to which of the two paths you should should (fight or flight), then you reevaluate what is important, then a state of being deliriously accepting.
Things don’t ALWAYS have to be this way. Humility on each side can make everything go much smoother and much more productive.
If you have blood in your veins you WILL make a mistake.
The lesson here, when you aren’t happy with how others don’t see your vision, take another look at your vision and take a mental snapshot, that may be the only time you will ever see your vision again. ^_^
Dax out-
Posted on December 1st, 2009 by Dax.
Categories: blog post.
So, as time has been moving along in certain situations, and updates are expected to make things “better”, things appear to be getting worse…or, at beat, overly complicated.
The exact situation cannot be expressed or explained in this medium. But the gist can be conveyed.
Ego’s getting in the way of excellence can easily be any humans mantra, or so it seems. Think of the early human who invented/created the wheel. How long do you think someone had that idea in their head before expressing it to their peers? Think about how much further along as a species we would be if we ALL “checked our egos at the door”?
I’m sure if you read between the lines of this post you can figure out what the exact situation is, but I’m attempting to convey a “big picture” message, I don’t want anyone to get lost in the details and form a specific opinion based on the players and places.
Just remember that we ALL are equal…no matter how much that sounds like a communist view…because we all are.
Dax out-